I’m not a believer of couples going out with each other for a night out. I know it’s a very common thing to do and how could you not go out with your best friend and his wife to dinner… But! But between me, you, and all other men and woman it doesn’t do greatness to your marriage… You will start comparing your spouse to your friends and what she or he does for the other which you don’t have…No matter what you say you will look! It happens to be I am religious but that is not where this coming from. This feeling is coming from the commitment of marriage! When you commit to marry your wife you are committing to block every other girl out too. By going out and hanging out with people that are not family is not blocking everyone else out.
There is another point to be made here….No matter what you think, there is no girl in the world that will keep you stimulated naturally. It fades out by everyone! Spray to inform you 3rd time marriages you can keep looking but you are not gonna find a companion that is just gonna act, look, dress, and turn you on like the first few times you went out to dinner forever. It doesn’t happen….Marriage needs work! There is no way in the world that you are gonna live the way you are dreaming, being happy in marriage with out working for it. Just like money it doesn’t come easy…It may look like it from the first few months, but it doesn’t stay like that forever.
Its not all that bad that that your marriage won’t stay fantasy like forever. The reason why god created it like this, is so you can experience the feeling for the first few months and then you will have the vision in your mind of what true love can bring you after you work to get to that point. In essence the first few months is just a fantasy. Its a total favor that god did so we can envision what we we are working towards. Naturally it should have been just like making money. You work your brains off until you can make enough to live the more you work the higher standard living you can live on. But in marriage god gave you a Lamborghini life style for free as a sign on bonus for the first few months. So in essence its a favor but it definitely aint the real thing its just superficial. These guys getting married every 2 years are chasing these fake sign on bonuses that evaporate after 6 months. Don’t get married go to a club and bring someone else home every night. And if thats too expensive go on Cregs list….
This all hit me when I was about to go out with my wife and our friends and there was work being done at my house from Edison Nj Electrician and this wise man called me over to the side and kindly explained me the above..I knew he was right from the first second I didn’t even try to argue it out with him. Right then and there I told my wife to tell them i’m sick and we cant make it. If this guy is so honest in his marriage I can definitely assure you that he will be incredibly honest in business check him out on Google Plus or Facebook Click here for other useful pages on his site or here for another.
Yes it is annoying to have to make a different excuse every time someone wants to go out with us but you know what? Its worth it! A healthier marriage is worth the world!
This is really a eye opener to a better marriage and I hope it helps! If you need any help i’m always here all you gotta do is reach out to me on the bottom..